I do not know whether I am a christian but I am regular in church and a dedicated worker. My husband is an elder in the church. Ten years into our marriage of infertility, my brother inlaw revealed to me that my husband had an accident when he was younger and that their family doctor told the family that he cannot father a child. I was so devastated because my husband didn’t tell me. My brother in-law started coming regularly to the house and started consoling me. On one of those visits, he slept with me and I got pregnant. I was so guilty that I didn’t allow my husband to sleep with me until my son was born. After that I started having regular sex with my brother in-law and got pregnant again. I had twins. We have been fine all these years. My first son is 14 years and the twins are 10 years each.

My husband is so sick and at the point of death. I am seeking advice whether to tell him or not. My heart is heavy with guilt. He has been so good to me. Please help me. What do I do?

Anonymous