Evang Malachi, please post this on your blog. I need urgent answer before I do something stupid.

I married my wife as a virgin 12 years ago and we have just a kid. We love each other and our kid is 7yrs. She has a colleague who became close to my family. I know about it. Lately he has been calling at odd times but I never suspected anything. The colleague is married and has visited us about three times.

On this unforgettable day, we left home together as usual. I dropped my son in school and her at work. Four hours later at work, I needed to work on a life. I realized that l left it at home. I got home, opened the door hearing noise from the guest room. It was wide open, I saw this man making love to my wife in the guest room!!! I just walked and I am with a friend outside the state. I have not told any one.

I just don’t know what to do. My heart is heavy. I need help please.